Kissing 101- Your Essential Guide to Kissing Tips & Techniques, Cooking

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First Edition. Published March 2005.
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Table Of Contents
First Kiss
- First kiss ever ....................................................................................................................................2
- Kissing a new partner for the first time ...............................................................................................2
- How to do it step by step ...................................................................................................................3
- Things to remember ...........................................................................................................................3
- Things to avoid ..................................................................................................................................4
- Dealing with nerves ...........................................................................................................................5
- What if they don’t want to kiss me back? ...........................................................................................5
- Photographic Step-By-Step Guide .......................................................................................................6
French Kiss ..............................................................................................................................................9
Practice .................................................................................................................................................13
How to deal with rejection .....................................................................................................................15
How to be a better kisser .......................................................................................................................17
Kissing reactions ...................................................................................................................................19
How to respond to their reactions ..........................................................................................................20
Bad responses .......................................................................................................................................21
Good responses .....................................................................................................................................23
When kissing is not appropriate .............................................................................................................25
Different kinds of kissing .......................................................................................................................28
Games ..................................................................................................................................................28
Different places & ways to kiss ...............................................................................................................30
Different ways to hold them when kissing ..............................................................................................33
The most romantic and exciting kisses ....................................................................................................36
The setting ............................................................................................................................................36
Spontaneity ...........................................................................................................................................37
Differences between men and women ....................................................................................................40
Emotional side of kissing .......................................................................................................................41
Kissing facts ..........................................................................................................................................42
Kissing Customs ....................................................................................................................................43
Tongue Piercing .....................................................................................................................................44
First Kiss
There are two different first kisses: your first kiss ever and your first kiss with a new person. Either way, they
are both so exciting that they will be something that will stick in your mind for years to come. In time, your
recollection of some things will fade, yet your memory of your first kiss will remain. You may remember trivial
things like the smell of their skin or a song that was on the radio at the time. But you will especially remember
the feeling you had as your lips touched theirs and you shared that intimate moment.
First Kiss Ever
When it comes to your first kiss ever, the most important thing to remember is that you’re doing it - not how
great it is! You’ve seen first kisses in the movies and heard people talking about their first, and perhaps you
have wondered what all the fuss is about. It is important to make the point now that your first kiss may not be
quite as smooth or as refined as it is in the movies. But trust me, after your first time it gets better and better.
With time and practice you will come to understand why kisses are the subject of sonnets and poetry.
Kissing a New Partner for the First Time
When you meet someone you really like, the first kiss is always a bit nerve-wracking. It seems to take over your
whole body. You’ll probably have butterflies in your stomach, but they are good butterflies. This kiss is more
romantic because you both know what to expect, but it is the kiss that defines the relationship and takes it to
the next level.
Who should kiss whom the first time? This is a question asked by a lot of people all over the world. I say it
doesn’t matter. A lot of people think it is the guy’s obligation to be first to do everything, such as saying hello,
asking the girl out, and making the first move. Is it fair to put all the pressure onto him? Absolutely not. If you
feel as though you want to kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should trust your instinct and make the move.
There really is no need to stick to a hard and fast rule that says someone else has to make the first move. Good
for you for having the guts to dive in for the catch. Now at least you are going to know that you are going
to kiss someone and can prepare. The other person may feel the same way as well but may feel too shy to do
anything about it.
Decide where you want this first kiss to happen. It should be a semi-romantic situation setting but not cheesy,
as this will cause the situation to become more ridiculous than romantic! Consider a place like the park or
beach, where you won’t get interrupted by family or friends. A kiss is something shared by two people, so you
may not want to kiss this person at a party in full view of friends and strangers. Cherish the first kiss; don’t put
it on display for others entertainment.
You shouldn’t kiss when you are in a rush. If you kiss and then have to leave, the other person may feel
shocked. This can make it awkward when you meet up the next time. Both of you may want to talk about it a
bit, especially if the kiss has changed things with the relationship between you. No doubt you’ll want to kiss
for a while, especially seeing as it is your first kiss.
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How to Do It Step By Step
If it is your first kiss ever, here’s what you need to do. (Please note that although this is written from the male
perspective, it applies equally well to women!)
Prepare yourself beforehand so you aren’t too nervous.
Get close to the person you want to kiss, maybe by touching, cuddling, or playful tussling. Don’t make it
too obvious; otherwise, there will be a little awkwardness between you. When it does come to the second
you want to kiss her, you want to ensure you aren’t too far away.
Now quickly de-stress.
Look at her in the eyes to make sure you both feel the same. If she doesn’t, she will pull away now. Looking
at her also lets her know what’s going on so she doesn’t get a fright and get flustered.
Look at her mouth so you know exactly where you are aiming for. Don’t be fooled by how it’s done in the
movies and shut your eyes. People in real life kiss with open as well as closed eyes, and unless you see,
there is a chance you may miss! It also means you don’t have to have eye contact any longer, which is good
because long amounts of eye contact can make people nervous.
Tilt your head to one side.
Open your lips slightly. Holding her by the back of the neck, move into her and KISS HER. Kiss either her
bottom or her top lip. This way the lips get locked together naturally. Holding her by the back of the neck
gives you control and will make her feel comfortable because it seems like you know what you are doing.
You probably want to close your eyes as soon as your lips meet or whenever you feel comfortable. You will
know when the right time is, and your eyes will seem to close by themselves.
Slightly open-mouthed kisses are better than closed-mouth kisses, as parted lips feel more comfortable
and make you feel closer. A slightly open mouth is better than a completely open mouth. It’s kind of like
a build up to a proper kiss, to get a feel for each other and feel comfortable.
Pull away a little to allow one another to catch your breath, absorb the sensations, and feel closer. Then kiss
her again, a little more passionately, with your mouth a little wider. Repeat until you’re comfortable.
Now’s the
biggy
!
Lightly, softly and slowly, start moving your tongue in and out of their mouth, massaging her tongue
with yours.
Don’t forget to look into your partner’s eyes after your first kiss to make sure she wants to continue. If she
feels that the kiss was inappropriate or doesn’t want to continue, she will pull back. Stop if her body feels
stiff or it feels like she’s not participating in the kisses, because those are signs she’s uncomfortable.
Things to Remember
Use lip balm regularly, as this will keep your lips in optimum kissable condition. Don’t use it in front of your
partner just before you kiss them if you want to make the moment look romantic and not planned!
Brush your teeth morning, noon and night. Also brush your tongue as it has bacteria that cause bad breath.
It would be scary to think you are kissing someone with yellow and brown teeth.
Chew gum and always have mints on hand.
Don’t kiss for too long and don’t feel guilty about taking a break to catch your breath and swallow. There
is nothing worse than kissing someone with a mouth full of saliva.
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